5 ways to make your relationship betterPosted by : vaishali , May 25th, 2011
No matter how good your relationship is, there is always something that you can do to make it better. Making a relationship better is not as difficult as we think. Ignore all the stuff that creates problems and concentrate on all the small little things to make the relationship healthy.
There are some general tips which you can follow to make your relationship better.
Accept your partner as they are
Your partner is very special human being. Truly love them. Don’t try to change them. Remember, your partner is prepared to spend their whole life with you after knowing all your shortcomings.
Get clear with what you want from your relationship
Get clear on what you want from your relationship. Focus on your short term and long term needs in your relationship. Create and share an idea of your dream life with your partner.
Create a good atmosphere
Choose a moment when you and your partner have time, then invite him/her to sit with you and talk to you. These types of moments create a good atmosphere in a relationship and makes relationship better.
Be prepared to accept a ‘no’ from your partner
If you are asking something from your partner then be prepared to listen a no from your partner. If you can’t accept no as an answer, it means you are making a demand, not a request
Solve your problems as soon as possible
Do not blame your partner always. Accept your mistakes for your part of the issue and say sorry to your partner. Sooner you stop blaming and start talking, the better you will feel. Never go to sleep with an unsolved issue, it creates more differences.
A better relationship can be just as easy as being kind, respectful, loving and being your partner’s best friend. If you follow these steps, you will help your relationship most of the time.